Closing the Gap

We've often heard there's a gap between what we know and what we do. Why is there a gap and how do we close it? The gap stems from what we believe and the actions we take or don't take as a result.

We would all readily agree that there is a God, the God of creation, the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. We believe that He is. We believe IN God. We know that if we didn’t believe in God it would be impossible to please Him. Even the demons believe and tremble. Even atheists can be found to turn to God in dire circumstances if their hearts haven’t become too hardened.




Hebrews 11:6, the first article of faith states – 

Heb 11:6 KJV  But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.

It’s a two-part statement – 
1. We must believe that He is, that He exists and 
2. We must believe that He is a rewarder of them that diligently seek Him.

There are two aspects necessary to have faith in God – First, we must accept the existence of the Almighty Creator of the universe as revealed in the Bible. Secondly, we must believe God will ultimately reward those who humbly, obediently seek Him, trusting the promises He makes in the Bible.

It’s the second half of the statement that I intend to explore with you today. I submit that it is the struggle we have with this part of our first article of faith that is the cause for the gap between what we know and what we do.

“We must believe that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.”

If we are to believe that he would reward us, we must believe that He is real enough. We must have a close enough relationship with him to know beyond the shadow of a doubt that he is real. Is God real in our lives?

Is God real enough to us that we can have a casual conversation with Him about whatever is going on in our lives? Or is God to us some ethereal being afar off in some far reaches of space, too distant to be involved or even interested in our lives?

To the degree that we believe God is real is the degree to which we believe He is who He says He is and He can and will do what He has promised us. We not only believe IN God but we BELIEVE God. We believe Him, what He says in His Holy Word the Bible.

We must come to know that He is real deep in our hearts and BELIEVE Him. We must not only believe IN God but we must BELIEVE God.

We must believe that God is who He says He is, and that he will do what he says he will do. God is who He says He is. He will do what he says He will do. And we believe him.

If God is not real enough to us then this lack of reality affects what we think and what we do.

To BELIEVE God, on the other hand, is to have faith that God can and will do for us whatever He has promised to do. It is our faith that fills the gap between knowing and doing and leads to a confident attitude toward God.

God will not reward someone with the gift of eternal life if they don’t believe Him. Just as a whole generation of Israelites did not make it into the Promised Land, we would be kept out of the Kingdom for the same reason.

God brought the Israelites out of bondage in Egypt and they wandered in the desert for 40 years. An entire generation of Israelites was not allowed to enter the Promised Land except for two men, Joshua and Caleb. (Num 26:65) 

Why?

After witnessing God’s miracles before the exodus, the parting of the Red Sea, and being guided by a pillar of a cloud by day and a pillar of fire by night, witnessing God’s glory fill the tabernacle, being fed manna like clockwork, eating quail in the middle of the desert, water gushing from a rock, their clothing and sandals not wearing out for 40 years, they still hardened their hearts and so were not permitted to step foot into the Promised Land. 

Why? We are told why in the 3rd chapter of Hebrews along with a dire warning for us today.

Heb 3:7-14 KJV(7)  Wherefore (as the Holy Spirit saith, To day if ye will hear his voice, [same meaning as, “hearken”, hear and do.](8)  Harden not your hearts, as in the provocation, in the day of temptation in the wilderness:(9)  When your fathers tempted me, proved me, and saw my works forty years.(10)  Wherefore I was grieved with that generation, and said, They do alway err in their heart; and they have not known my ways.(11)  So I sware in my wrath, They shall not enter into my rest.)(12)  Take heed, brethren, lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief, in departing from the living God.(13)  But exhort one another daily, while it is called To day; lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin.(14)  For we are made partakers of Christ, if we hold the beginning of our confidence stedfast unto the end; 

Let’s stop there and take a look at this word, “confidence”.

The Greek word translated “confidence” here is the same word (hupostasis) translated as “substance” in Hebrews 11:1 – 

Heb 11:1 KJV  Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. 

hupostasis

Thayer Definition:
1) a setting or placing under
1a) thing put under, substructure, foundation
2) that which has foundation, is firm
2a) that which has actual existence
2a1) a substance, real being 
2b) the substantial quality, nature, of a person or thing
2c) the steadfastness of mind, firmness, courage, resolution
2c1) confidence, firm trust, assurance

Now, let’s try substituting the word, “substance” into Heb 3:14 – 

For we are made partakers of Christ, if we hold the beginning of our substance stedfast unto the end;

Doesn’t make sense, does it? Let’s try it the other way around. Let’s substitute the word, “confidence” into Heb 11:1 – 

Now faith is the confidence of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.

It’s certain!

Now, we’re getting somewhere. Faith is the confident assurance of things hoped for. Something promised is assured.

If you have a confident assurance that something is going to happen in the future; maybe you’ve been promised a large sum of money and you’re absolutely positively certain you’re going to get it, you live in eager anticipation of it. You have a confident expectation that you’re going to get it as you’ve been promised. You look expectantly toward that future event to the degree that you believe the one that promised it. 

That’s the confidence it’s talking about! It’s real! It’s certain!

Heb 3:15-19 KJV(15)  While it is said, To day if ye will hear [hearken] his voice, harden not your hearts, as in the provocation.(16)  For some, when they had heard, did provoke: howbeit not all that came out of Egypt by Moses.(17)  But with whom was he grieved forty years? was it not with them that had sinned, whose carcases fell in the wilderness?(18)  And to whom sware he that they should not enter into his rest, but to them that believed not?(19)  So we see that they could not enter in because of unbelief.

The Israelites were not allowed to enter the promised land because of their unbelief. 

Now we know they believed IN God. Their voices were heard crying out to God when they were in bondage (Exo 2:23; 3:9). We know they complained about how God had brought them out into the desert to die (Num 21:5). 
So what kind of “unbelief” is it talking about here? Let’s look at where God sware in his wrath that they would not enter in.

This was right after the 12 spies returned from Canaan and 10 gave an evil report. God was originally going to destroy them all and Moses intervened on their behalf and pleaded with God to spare them for His name’s sake (Num 14:6).

Num 14:20-24 KJV(20)  And the LORD said, I have pardoned according to thy word:(21)  But as truly as I live, all the earth shall be filled with the glory of the LORD.

 [I have pardoned you but mark my words, I WILL fill all the earth with the glory of the LORD with or without you!]

(22)  Because all those men which have seen my glory, and my miracles, which I did in Egypt and in the wilderness, and have tempted me now these ten times, and have not hearkened to my voice;(23)  Surely they shall not see the land which I sware unto their fathers, neither shall any of them that provoked me see it:(24)  But my servant Caleb, because he had another spirit with him, and hath followed me fully, him will I bring into the land whereinto he went; and his seed shall possess it.

Caleb (and Joshua) had “another spirit” with them. They believed God when He said He would give them the land of Canaan despite the giants, the sons of Anak, they saw there and followed Him fully.


Did the Israelites in the wilderness believe in God? They cried out to Him when they were in bondage. They had to have believed IN God. They had seen his miracles, they had heard his ten commandments thundered from Mount Horeb by Jesus Christ, the God of the Old Testament. They believed in Him but they didn’t believe God. They didn’t trust him to care for them during their sojourn in the wilderness. They didn’t believe he was really going to give them Canaan, a land flowing with milk and honey. They didn’t have a confident assurance and expectation that He would. And because of their unbelief they were not allowed to see the Promised Land.

Do we understand the difference? Do we understand the difference between believing in God and believing God?

Do we believe God? Of course, we all believe in God. 

But do we believe God? Do we believe what he says? Do we take what he says to heart? Do we trust him? Do we take him at his word? Is He real enough to us to act on it?

Hearkening to God’s voice is not just to hear his voice, but to believe him and do what He says. His warning to us today is that we not harden our hearts as they did and provoke him in our unbelief.

Abraham, the father of the faithful, believed God and it was counted to him for righteousness. 

Rom 4:1-9 KJV(1)  What shall we say then that Abraham our father, as pertaining to the flesh, hath found?(2)  For if Abraham were justified by works, he hath whereof to glory; but not before God.(3)  For what saith the scripture? Abraham believed God, and it was counted unto him for righteousness.(4)  Now to him that worketh is the reward not reckoned of grace, but of debt. [he earned it] (5)  But to him that worketh not, but believeth on him that justifieth the ungodly, his faith is counted for righteousness.(6)  Even as David also describeth the blessedness of the man, unto whom God imputeth righteousness without works,(7)  Saying, Blessed are they whose iniquities are forgiven, and whose sins are covered.(8)  Blessed is the man to whom the Lord will not impute sin.(9)  Cometh this blessedness then upon the circumcision only, or upon the uncircumcision also? for we say that faith was reckoned to Abraham for righteousness.

So, faith was reckoned to Abraham for righteousness. I thought it was belief! Just six verses earlier it says that Abraham BELIEVED God and it was counted to him for righteousness. Now here it says, FAITH was reckoned to Abraham for righteousness. What’s the difference?

What does James say about faith?

Jas 2:18-23 KJV(18)  Yea, a man may say, Thou hast faith, and I have works: shew me thy faith without thy works, and I will shew thee my faith by my works.(19)  Thou believest that there is one God; thou doest well: the devils also believe, and tremble.(20)  But wilt thou know, O vain man, that faith without works is dead?(21)  Was not Abraham our father justified by works, when he had offered Isaac his son upon the altar?(22)  Seest thou how faith wrought with his works, and by works was faith made perfect?(23)  And the scripture was fulfilled which saith, Abraham believed God, and it was imputed unto him for righteousness: and he was called the Friend of God.

If we BELIEVE God, truly believe God, our actions reflect our belief. True, living faith requires much more than words. It requires commitment and evidence of that commitment. BELIEVING God is faith in action. We believe what He said and we act on it because it’s true. It’s real to us. We have confident assurance that it is so. Therefore, we act on it.

Are any of us wandering in the wilderness believing in God, but not believing God? Are we hearkening to God’s voice and following Him fully in obedience without question, without hesitation, and without complaint?

This is the gap between what we know and what we do. Between what we believe and our actions, our obedience.

Let me demonstrate through another account of Abraham’s faith.

Gen 17:10-11; 22-23 KJV(10)  This is my covenant, which ye shall keep, between me and you and thy seed after thee; Every man child among you shall be circumcised.(11)  And ye shall circumcise the flesh of your foreskin; and it shall be a token of the covenant betwixt me and you.…(22)  And he left off talking with him, and God went up from Abraham.

So, the conversation was over and God left Abraham there by himself. So, what did Abraham do? He went home and talked to Sarah about it, got together with a couple of the guys to see what they thought about this circumcision thing. Do you think that’s what he really meant? Maybe we should take a vote on it. I mean, this had never been done before. 

Is that what happened? 

No, Abraham immediately took action without question or hesitation.

(23)  And Abraham took Ishmael his son, and all that were born in his house, and all that were bought with his money, every male among the men of Abraham's house; and circumcised the flesh of their foreskin in the selfsame day, as God had said unto him.

Gentlemen, is there anyone else here today besides me that might have wanted to think about that for a couple days? Maybe take a week to ponder?

THAT’S the gap between believing IN God and BELIEVING God and acting on it! 

Our belief is proven by our action. The gap between what we know and what we do is what causes our internal struggle. If we truly believe God, and trust that He has our best interest at heart, we wouldn’t hesitate.

Sometimes we just need to step out in faith believing God that He will direct our steps, that He will guide our efforts, that He will direct our thoughts, trusting in Him, that He has our best interests at heart, walking by faith and not by sight.

If we truly believe God, not just believe in Him, the gap between what we know and what we do wouldn’t be so wide. Those times when we do obey Him perfectly, there’s no gap at all. 

A principle of faith is that godly faith leads to active evidence of that faith. In fact, faith enables obedience.

Believing God in faith leads to obedience.

Rom 16:25-26 NIV(25)  Now to him who is able to establish you in accordance with my gospel, the message I proclaim about Jesus Christ, in keeping with the revelation of the mystery hidden for long ages past,(26)  but now revealed and made known through the prophetic writings by the command of the eternal God, so that all the Gentiles might come to the obedience that comes from faith—

KJV – obedience of faith
NKJV – for obedience to the faith
NLT – that they might believe and obey
NIV – obedience that comes from faith

We must believe God if we’re to trust and obey God. Believing God is an act of faith. The same kind of belief that was imputed to Abraham as righteousness is imputed to us also.

Rom 4:11-25 KJV(11)  And he received the sign of circumcision, a seal of the righteousness of the faith which he had yet being uncircumcised: 

[He believed God before he was circumcised. The circumcision was just the sign, the token, of the action taken to seal the deal.]

that he might be the father of all them that believe, though they be not circumcised; that righteousness might be imputed unto them also:(12)  And the father of circumcision to them who are not of the circumcision only, but who also walk in the steps of that faith of our father Abraham, which he had being yet uncircumcised.(13)  For the promise, that he should be the heir of the world, was not to Abraham, or to his seed, through the law, but through the righteousness of faith.(14)  For if they which are of the law be heirs, faith is made void, and the promise made of none effect:(15)  Because the law worketh wrath: for where no law is, there is no transgression.(16)  Therefore it is of faith, that it might be by grace; to the end [the purpose] the promise might be sure to all the seed; not to that only which is of the law, but to that also which is of the faith of Abraham; who is the father of us all,(17)  (As it is written, I have made thee a father of many nations,) before him whom he believed, even God, who quickeneth the dead, and calleth those things which be not as though they were.(18)  Who against hope believed in hope, that he might become the father of many nations, according to that which was spoken, So shall thy seed be.

[He had no human reason to hope but hoped in faith that he should become the father of many nations, as he had been promised]

(19)  And being not weak in faith, he considered not his own body now dead, when he was about an hundred years old, neither yet the deadness of Sara's womb:(20)  He staggered not at the promise of God through unbelief; but was strong in faith, giving glory to God; (21)  And being fully persuaded that, what he had promised, he was able also to perform.(22)  And therefore it was imputed to him for righteousness.(23)  Now it was not written for his sake alone, that it was imputed to him;(24)  But for us also, to whom it shall be imputed, if we believe on him that raised up Jesus our Lord from the dead;(25)  Who was delivered for our offences, and was raised again for our justification.

Believing God is also imputed to us as righteousness! 

Before we get the big head though, let’s be reminded, all our righteousnesses are as filthy rags, lest we should boast. (Isa 64:6)

Faith is always faith (trust) in something or someone. In our case, we place our faith in God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ. We must put on Christ; He is our righteousness. (2Cor 5:21; Rom 3:22; Gal 3:26-27; Php 3:9)

Heb 10:12-23 KJV(12)  But this man, after he had offered one sacrifice for sins for ever, sat down on the right hand of God;(13)  From henceforth expecting till his enemies be made his footstool.(14)  For by one offering he hath perfected for ever them that are sanctified.(15)  Whereof the Holy Spirit also is a witness to us: for after that he had said before,(16)  This is the covenant that I will make with them after those days, saith the Lord, I will put my laws into their hearts, and in their minds will I write them;(17)  And their sins and iniquities will I remember no more.(18)  Now where remission of these is, there is no more offering for sin.(19)  Having therefore, brethren, boldness [confidence] to enter into the holiest by the blood of Jesus,(20)  By a new and living way, which he hath consecrated for us, through the veil, that is to say, his flesh;(21)  And having an high priest over the house of God;(22)  Let us draw near with a true heart in full assurance of faith, having our hearts sprinkled from an evil conscience, and our bodies washed with pure water.(23)  Let us hold fast the profession of our faith without wavering; (for he is faithful that promised;)

Faith is not idle. Faith is not stagnant. Faith requires action. James said, prove my faith by my works. 

The gap between what we know (what we believe) and what we do (our actions/our works) is filled by faith, believing God, taking Him at His Word and obeying; acting accordingly.

If we were perfectly obedient, there would be no gap. We would immediately do what God told us without question and without hesitation. However, our human nature, our fleshly being, causes us to doubt, causes us to worry, causes us to rationalize. Therefore, there’s a gap.

Our faith is in God, who quickeneth the dead, and calleth those things which be not as though they were. (Rom 4:17)

God speaks the future as if it were already and then having the power, by His Spirit to bring it about. 

We exercise faith by believing what He says now and acting as if it were already true. We live and walk by faith, not by sight. We believe His exceeding great and precious promises and anticipate their fulfillment in hopeful expectation – hoping against hope believing them to be true regardless of what we see going on around us to the contrary.

Believing God means more than the mere acknowledgment of His existence. Faith involves a relationship with God that deepens and matures over time. Over time our faith grows. Obedience through faith leads to greater faith and obedience and the gap closes.

If we are to truly close the gap between what we say and what we do, we not only must believe IN God, we must BELIEVE God can and will do what He says. 

God is faithful. He loves us and wants what’s best for us. As long as we don’t give up on Him, He won’t give up on us. He has the power to bring about His good pleasure to give us the Kingdom. (Luk 12:32) We need only trust Him and surrender our will to His and He will accomplish the work He began in us when He called us into His marvelous light.

Php 1:6 KJV  Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ:

Brethren we have been given exceeding great and precious promises. We are kept by the power of God. We need but to hold fast our faith. We’re all going through trials and temptations of some sort but we have each other and we have our God.

1Pe 1:3-9 (KJV)3  Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, which according to his abundant mercy hath begotten us again unto a lively hope by the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead,4  To an inheritance incorruptible, and undefiled, and that fadeth not away, reserved in heaven for you,5  Who are kept by the power of God through faith unto salvation ready to be revealed in the last time.6  Wherein ye greatly rejoice, though now for a season, if need be, ye are in heaviness through manifold temptations:7  That the trial of your faith, being much more precious than of gold that perisheth, though it be tried with fire, might be found unto praise and honour and glory at the appearing of Jesus Christ:8  Whom having not seen, ye love; in whom, though now ye see him not, yet believing, ye rejoice with joy unspeakable and full of glory:9  Receiving the end [object] of your faith, even the salvation of your souls.

Satan has been working to wear out the saints since the day we came into the truth (Dan 7:25). We are troubled on every side; we are perplexed; we are persecuted; and we may be cast down; 

But we are NOT distressed; 
we are NOT in despair; 
we are NOT forsaken; 
we are NOT destroyed! (2Co 4:8-9)

Brethren, we serve the Most High God! We have the Spirit of the living God within us. Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us. Neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. (Rom 8:35-39 KJV)

We can do all things through Christ who strengthens us. (Php 4:13)

It has been written that Alexander the Great once said, “I am not afraid of an army of lions led by sheep; I am afraid of an army of sheep led by a lion.”

Sometimes I think we just need to be reminded whose side we’re on. 

We may be but sheep for the slaughter but we’re led by the Lion of Judah!

Thanks be to God, which gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. (1Cor 15:57)
For whatsoever is born of God overcomes the world: and this is the victory that overcomes the world, even our faith. (1Jn 5:4)

Brethren, if there’s a gap in our lives between what we know and what we do, we know what we need to do to close the gap. Each and every one of us knows what we need to do. We just need to do it!

We’ve been given innumerable booklets and study aids. We’ve got scores of videos and sermons available to us on line. We’ve sat at the feet of some of the most knowledgeable Bible scholars in the world. And we’ve been given the word of God and God’s Holy Spirit to guide us through it all. 

The key is we got to have the “want to”. We have to want to take the action necessary to follow God with all our heart, mind, soul, and strength. All that’s missing is the motivation, the motivation to let go of all the temporal things that have been holding us back and to take hold of the truths that God has given us.

The key to that motivation lies in BELIEVING God. When we take Him at His word and truly BELIEVE the future He has in store for us; when we BELIEVE that Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God has prepared for them that love him (1Co 2:9 KJV), we won’t question, we won’t hesitate, we won’t falter. When we are absolutely, positively, confident that what God has told us will happen in our lives there will be no gap.

This is real folks. It’s as real as real can get.

Believe God. Put your faith and trust in Him. Take Him at his word and BELIEVE HIM.


May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that you may abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. (Rom 15:13) 


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The God of All Comfort

Henry David Thoreau, an 19th century American essayist, poet, philosopher, and historian once wrote, “The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation. What is called resignation is confirmed desperation. From the desperate city you go into the desperate country, and have to console yourself with the bravery of minks and muskrats. A stereotyped but unconscious despair is concealed even under what are called the games and amusements of mankind. There is no play in them, for this comes after work. But it is a characteristic of wisdom not to do desperate things.”

Looking around at the present political, economic, and spiritual landscape, I am convinced that that quiet desperation is becoming one of anxious desperation, worry, doubt, and discouragement as the future becomes more uncertain for those who don’t know God.

Most of the time man can keep his anxiety in check through various means and vices that calm his spirit until he can fall asleep at night. He wants to be in his comfort zone, sitting in a comfortable chair, eating comfort food, with a comforter across his lap. Feeling comforted. But he resigns himself to a life of quiet desperation seeking to fill the God-shaped hole in his heart with anything but.

What about the people of God? As God continues to withdraw his hand of blessing, we will see mankind become more and more desperate. When a man becomes desperate, he feels justified in using more desperate measures to get what he needs. Desperate times, desperate measures.

Adult Baby Pacifier

When we see desperation all around us, will we succumb to the chaos or will we allow ourselves to be comforted by the God of all comfort? Will we keep our heads when all about us are losing theirs and ultimately blaming it on us? [Rudyard Kipling: “If”]

God has told us that he loves us, so much so that he sent Jesus Christ, his only begotten Son as the atoning sacrifice for our sins. God told us he would never leave us nor forsake us. God told us that though thousands may fall at our side, not a hair of our head would be harmed, and many other exceeding great and precious promises.

Do you believe Him? Do you believe God? Not do you believe in God, but do you believe Him? Do you believe what He says? Do you trust Him? Is he trustworthy?

Of course, he is trustworthy. The difficulty we have comes when circumstances arise in our lives that frustrate us or cause us to be anxious, confused, and discouraged. Do we believe him then? Do we trust him then? Is he still trustworthy then?

What changed during those tough times? God? When we become anxious about our lives, is it God who has changed, that causes us to be anxious? Or is it us?

We know God cannot lie and is the same today, yesterday and forever. So, it must be us, our attitudes, our trust in him that wavers. When everything seems to be going our way, it’s easy to see God’s hand in it. We feel blessed. We feel that God is looking out for us. We feel that we are in his good graces.

But when the going gets tough and we’re being tested and tried by fire, how about then? Do we question whether God is with us then? Do we feel like maybe he has left us then? Do we feel forsaken? Like the non-believer, do we begin to feel anxious when the future becomes uncertain?

When God is with us, we feel comforted just knowing he’s there. But when things don’t go our way, if we’re not firmly grounded in our beliefs, knowing what we know and knowing that we know it, we can panic just like a small child.

Have a you ever watched a small child playing on the playground? They are just so precious and full of joy and happiness playing as they do. But have you ever noticed that every so often they’ll glance up to see if Mommy or Daddy is still there? They may even call out them, “Watch me!”. They need that extra reassurance that Mommy or Daddy is looking, that they are interested in what they are doing, that they care. But most of the time when they look up, they just want to know that Mommy or Daddy is still there. Once they see them, they go back to whatever it was that they were doing.

If they ever look up and Mommy or Daddy is not where they’re supposed to be, you can see panic set in. Where are they?! What happened to them?! And the child suddenly feels vulnerable, and alone, and afraid.

We are God’s children and he is our Father. Like a child, we feel comforted by God’s presence. And like a child, we feel anxious when we look up and don’t see Him. I don’t care if you’re 22 years old or if you’re 62 years old, you want to know God is still there when you look up from whatever it is you’re doing. We want to feel his presence in our lives.

Especially when things seem to be going all wrong, we look up to see if God is there. If we don’t see Him right away, if we don’t see his hand in it, panic sets in. Where is He?! What happened to Him?! Why is He allowing this to happen?! What did I do?! We feel vulnerable, and alone, and afraid.

At such times, we need that extra reassurance. We want to know that God sees what’s going on, what’s happening in our lives. And just like that little child looking to his earthly father to fix it, we want to know that our heavenly Father will make everything okay.

We are of the family of God and as our Father, God wants to provide for us. He cares for us. He loves us. Rest assured. He is there. It is his good pleasure to provide for us, even to give us the Kingdom. (Luk 12:32) Whether we feel His presence or not, God is there.

There are four sources of comfort we can draw on according to the Bible –

1. Comfort from the Scriptures
2. Comfort Ourselves
3. Comfort Each Other
4. Comfort from God

Comfort from the Scriptures

 Is what’s written in the Bible true because it’s written in the Bible or did God inspire it to be written in the Bible because it’s true? The words in the Bible are true because they are grounded in the fundamental laws of God that He used to create the universe and all things. The Bible records that truth for us so that we can know it and believe it.

It is believing the thing that is written in the Bible, not what we feel about it, that matters. Knowing is believing the thing that is written. We are to know what we know and know that we know it. Not know what we feel and know that we feel it.

When I read in the Bible that God is love, I am to believe it, just because “it is written”, regardless of whether I have had any inward feeling that it is true; and when the Bible says that He cares for us as He cares for the lilies of the field and the birds of the air, and that the very hairs of our head are all numbered, I am to believe it, just because it is written, no matter what my feelings are about it.

The Evil One loves to play on our emotions. The more he can get us to trust our feelings the easier we are to manipulate.

“Trust your heart,” he says. (However see Jer 17:9)

“Trust your gut,” he says. (However see Php 3:19)

God says, “Believe me.” (See Joh 14:1)

In several places we’re told “according to your faith” be it unto you and “your faith has made you whole”, your belief. Not belief as if it was a magic amulet or magic charm, but belief in Christ, in who he was, the very Son of God.

In Jesus’ hometown of Nazareth, he couldn’t do many miracles because they didn’t have faith, they didn’t believe. It doesn’t say because they just weren’t feeling it. It was because of their unbelief. “Isn’t this the son of Joseph? The kid we used to see running around here?” They didn’t believe who Jesus was. Their feelings had nothing to do with it.

If I were to drop this Bible it’s going to fall. It doesn’t matter how you feel about the Holy Word of God being treated in such fashion. It doesn’t matter what you feel about what would happen to those beautiful flowers. What matters is fact. The Law of Gravity is fact and just as surely as gravity is fact so is faith. How we feel about it has nothing to do with it.

Why were the original older generation of Israelites forbidden to enter the promised land?

Heb 3:7-19 KJV  Wherefore (as the Holy Spirit saith, To day if ye will hear his voice,  (8)  Harden not your hearts, as in the provocation, in the day of temptation in the wilderness:  (9)  When your fathers tempted me, proved me, and saw my works forty years.  (10)  Wherefore I was grieved with that generation, and said, They do alway err in their heart; and they have not known my ways.  (11)  So I sware in my wrath, They shall not enter into my rest.)  (12)  Take heed, brethren, lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief, in departing from the living God.  (13)  But exhort one another daily, while it is called To day; lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin.  (14)  For we are made partakers of Christ, if we hold the beginning of our confidence stedfast unto the end;  (15)  While it is said, To day if ye will hear his voice, harden not your hearts, as in the provocation.  (16)  For some, when they had heard, did provoke: howbeit not all that came out of Egypt by Moses.  (17)  But with whom was he grieved forty years? was it not with them that had sinned, whose carcases fell in the wilderness?  (18)  And to whom sware he that they should not enter into his rest, but to them that believed not?  (19)  So we see that they could not enter in because of unbelief.

The older ones had lived long enough to realize there was evil in the world. They had experienced it firsthand. They had become cynical, skeptical, unbelieving. They trusted in their feelings, their evil heart of unbelief instead of taking God at his word.

Psa 78:19-22 KJV  Yea, they spake against God; they said, Can God furnish a table in the wilderness?  (20)  Behold, he smote the rock, that the waters gushed out, and the streams overflowed; can he give bread also? can he provide flesh for his people?  (21)  Therefore the LORD heard this, and was wroth: so a fire was kindled against Jacob, and anger also came up against Israel;  (22)  Because they believed not in God, and trusted not in his salvation:

We shake our heads at the Israelites behavior. We can’t believe they could be like that! I mean, they saw all the miracles God did to get them released from captivity in Egypt. They had a pillar of fire to guide them by night. They had a pillar of a cloud to cover them and protect them from the blistering sun and lead them by day. They had manna to eat, they had water that miraculously sprung from a rock. They had quail to eat to the full. Their clothing didn’t wear out for 40 years. Yet they still complained and murmured against God. We can hardly believe they could have been so self-centered and unbelieving!

Yet, had we been in their shoes, I venture to say we may have allowed our feelings to overwhelm us. Imagine walking through the desert every day. Eating manna every day. Nothing to entertain you but instead the constant drudgery of putting one foot in front of the other every day. Set up the tents. Take down the tents. Cook the manna. Boil the manna. Fry the manna. Bake the manna. Sautee the manna. Grill the manna. Manna, manna, manna. Rest on the Sabbath. Whew! Do it all again next week. For forty years!

Sounds like our jobs, doesn’t it? For forty years. For an entire career. Meanwhile, they dealt with all the family issues, the arguments with each other, the jealousy, the disagreements, the sickness, the deaths, the discomforts, the drama of life. Starting to sound familiar?

We view their plight in the wilderness with head knowledge and think “how could they NOT trust in God”, but had we been there, we too might have gotten emotionally caught up. Our feelings might have overtaken our reason and caused us to lose heart and lose sight of the blessings.

Take comfort in the scriptures. Trust God. Take God at His word. Believe what He tells us in the Holy Scriptures. How we’re feeling at the time doesn’t matter. Be of good cheer. 

God said it. We believe it. That settles it.

Comfort Ourselves

Here’s a story of a time when David's wives and children were taken captive and his men were ready to stone him.

1Sa 30:1-6 KJV  And it came to pass, when David and his men were come to Ziklag on the third day, that the Amalekites had invaded the south, and Ziklag, and smitten Ziklag, and burned it with fire;  (2)  And had taken the women captives, that were therein: they slew not any, either great or small, but carried them away, and went on their way.  (3)  So David and his men came to the city, and, behold, it was burned with fire; and their wives, and their sons, and their daughters, were taken captives.  (4)  Then David and the people that were with him lifted up their voice and wept, until they had no more power to weep.  (5)  And David's two wives were taken captives, Ahinoam the Jezreelitess, and Abigail the wife of Nabal the Carmelite.  (6)  And David was greatly distressed; for the people spake of stoning him, because the soul of all the people was grieved, every man for his sons and for his daughters: but David encouraged himself in the LORD his God.

How does David encourage himself?

(Psa 42:5 KJV)  Why art thou cast down, O my soul? and why art thou disquieted in me? hope thou in God: for I shall yet praise him for the help of his countenance. [his face, his watchful eye over me]

(Psa 42:11 KJV)  Why art thou cast down, O my soul? and why art thou disquieted within me? hope thou in God: for I shall yet praise him, who is the health of my countenance, and my God. [David’s face, his joy]

(Psa 43:5 KJV)  Why art thou cast down, O my soul? and why art thou disquieted within me? hope in God: for I shall yet praise him, who is the health of my countenance, and my God. [David’s face, his joy]

What does David do amidst his discomfort and discouragement? He praises God and places his hope in Him! Praises his watchful eye and the joy he brings!

Psa 119:52 KJV  I remembered thy judgments of old, O LORD; and have comforted myself.

Psa 94:19 KJV  In the multitude of my thoughts within me thy comforts delight my soul.

When we feel that God does not hear us or has cast us off, remember the good things He has done. Praise Him for who he is, for watching over us, and for all he has done.

Comfort Each Other

2Co 1:2-4 KJV  Grace be to you and peace from God our Father, and from the Lord Jesus Christ.  (3)  Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort;  (4)  Who comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God.

God is the source of all our comfort. As we are comforted, so do we comfort others. As God has shown us how, we also bring comfort to others.

Isa 35:4 NASB  Say to those with anxious heart, "Take courage, fear not. Behold, your God will come with vengeance; The recompense of God will come, But He will save you."

There is comfort in knowing our Deliverer is coming!

2Co 7:4-7 KJV  Great is my boldness of speech toward you, great is my glorying of you: I am filled with comfort, I am exceeding joyful in all our tribulation.  (5)  For, when we were come into Macedonia, our flesh had no rest, but we were troubled on every side; without were fightings, within were fears.  (6)  Nevertheless God, that comforteth those that are cast down, comforted us by the coming of Titus;  (7)  And not by his coming only, but by the consolation wherewith he was comforted in you, when he told us your earnest desire, your mourning, your fervent mind toward me; so that I rejoiced the more.

Often when we’re in the middle of a mess, just having a friend come and be with us lifts our spirits. And even more so if he has good news that others on our side are faring well, thinking of us, praying for us.

Shared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow.

1Th 3:6-8 NASB  But now that Timothy has come to us from you, and has brought us good news of your faith and love, and that you always think kindly of us, longing to see us just as we also long to see you,  (7)  for this reason, brethren, in all our distress and affliction we were comforted about you through your faith;  (8)  for now we really live, if you stand firm in the Lord.

Think not only of yourself but also of how others must feel. Be an encourager. Visit with those who are discouraged. Bring a kind word of comfort. Comfort each other.

Comfort from God

2Co 1:2-4 KJV  Grace be to you and peace from God our Father, and from the Lord Jesus Christ.  (3)  Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort;  (4)  Who comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God.

God has told us that he would care for us, that we should take no thought for tomorrow. We are told to behold the lilies of the field and the fowls of the air and he assures us that we are of much more value than they and that if he cares for them, he will much more care for us.

To think that the sovereign Ruler and Creator of the universe who can control everything and foresee everything and can manage everything in the very best possible way would care for us is an awesome concept for the human mind to grasp. How great a comfort this must be!

One would think this would be enough to calm our anxious care in every circumstance. And yet how few people are really comforted by it. Why is this? Simply and only because they do not believe it. They are waiting to have an inward feeling that His words are true, before they will believe them.

They wish they could believe them, but they do not think they can be true in their own special case, unless they can have an inward feeling that they are; and since they have no such inward feeling, they do not believe His words apply to them; and consequently, they do not in the least expect Him actually to care for their affairs at all.

It is pure and simple unbelief that is at the bottom of all our lack of comfort, and absolutely nothing else. God comforts us on every side, but we simply do not believe His words of comfort. We refuse to be comforted.

If we want to be comforted, we must make up our minds to believe every single solitary word of comfort God has ever spoken; and we must refuse

utterly to listen to any words of discomfort spoken by our own hearts, or by our circumstances.

We must believe it. We must say to ourselves, “God says it, and it is true, and I am going to believe it, no matter how things look.”

Comfort must follow faith. We must believe it, then we can be comforted.

God says “believe” and THEN you can “feel”. We want to “feel” it and then we can “believe”. We recognize this in our earthly matters and are never so foolish as to expect to feel we have anything until we first believe that it is in our possession.

For example, I could not possibly feel glad that I had a fortune in the bank, unless I knew that it was really there. We believe it because we know it. But in spiritual things we reverse God’s order, and refuse to believe that we possess anything until we first feel as if we had it. If we will but believe God’s words of comfort, then we will feel it but we doubt the comfort of God’s words until we feel it in our own hearts. This approach is backwards. We must believe it, then we can feel it.

Jesus told us he is the Good Shepherd. He gives his life for the sheep. His sheep know him. We are his sheep and we follow him whithersoever he goeth. The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want.

The Shepherd provides for us. He knows what’s best for us. He shall supply all our need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. (Php 4:19)

He protects us. Thy rod and thy staff, they comfort me.

He leads us beside the still waters.

Mat 8:23-27 KJV  And when he was entered into a ship, his disciples followed him.  (24)  And, behold, there arose a great tempest in the sea, insomuch that the ship was covered with the waves: but he was asleep.  (25)  And his disciples came to him, and awoke him, saying, Lord, save us: we perish.  (26)  And he saith unto them, Why are ye fearful, O ye of little faith? Then he arose, and rebuked the winds and the sea; and there was a great calm.  (27)  But the men marvelled, saying, What manner of man is this, that even the winds and the sea obey him!

We have the storms of life all around us. If you noticed, Jesus was asleep. He wasn’t worried or anxious. The others were anxious. Why? Jesus told them it was because of a lack of faith, belief in Him.

It is not necessary for the turmoil around us to cease in order for us to be comforted. God doesn’t always have to calm the storm. Sometimes He calms His child. If we are well grounded in the truth of God, if we truly believe, we can be in a state of calm and comfort all the day long despite what may be going on around us. Not because of anything we have done. Not because of who we are but because of who God is.

Our faith and our trust, properly placed, is in God. Just like the little child who is in a state of peace and calm because his father is near, so we can be in a state of peace and calm because we know our heavenly Father is near.

Before his departure, Jesus said he would send the Comforter, which is the Holy Spirit, to be with us in his absence to teach us, to help us, to guide us, to comfort us. Are we comforted by the Holy Spirit? Do we let the Holy Spirit comfort us?

Often, we pray that God would intervene on our behalf. We ask him to ease a burden or to take it from us. We ask him to handle our problem for us. We lay it all at His feet. And then, rather than being comforted by it, by handing it off to our heavenly Father and trusting in him, having the faith and belief that he will handle it for us, we take it back and continue to worry about it anyway. Why? Why would we do that?

How many of us who are fathers or mothers would gladly help our child out of a bind? Especially if they ask for our help? We don’t expect our children to do our part. Their part is to trust and obey, and be brought up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. Our part is to provide for their needs in accordance with what’s in their best interest. How many of us would be crushed if we found out our child didn’t trust us to provide for them? How devastated would be to find out our child didn’t have faith in us to look out for their every need?

Our heavenly Father is the same way. How do you think he feels when we don’t trust the promises he has made to provide our every need and to watch over us? He wants to take care of us and to do things for us.  Let him. But we do have to wait on his perfect timing. It’s not all about us. There are other considerations.

We must give God’s Holy Spirit time to work. There is a very complex multitude of circumstances that God must consider and work out to the good of all who love God and are the called according to his purpose. (Rom 8:28) God’s thoughts are higher than our thoughts. He has a lot of moving parts he has to work with.

What we’re asking may be dependent on someone else responding to God’s instruction before he can put the next piece in place. Just as we don’t all respond immediately as we should. Sometimes it takes time. Remember when Daniel’s prayer was heard but it took 21 days for the angel of the Lord to get to him because he was delayed by the prince of Persia?

Give it time. Keep praying but give it time. Wait I say on the Lord.

He wants to help us, his children, not because we deserve it or have earned it. It’s not because of what kind of person we are but because of what kind of Father God is.

Do we take him at his word? Do we wait on his perfect timing? How long do we wait?

Abraham, the father of the faithful waited 10 years from the time God told him he would have a son in Genesis 12:4 until he took matters into his own hands in Genesis 16:4. It was 25 years total until Isaac was born in Gen 21:5. Would we be that faithful?

God said He would comfort us. Believe him.

Rom 8:28 KJV  And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.

That is not to say that what WE think are "good things" are the same as what God thinks are the "good things" that are best for us. We must rest in the fact that having asked, the "things" we receive are good whether what we receive looks like it or not. However things may look, we always know that God must give the best because He is God and could do no other.

 2Co 9:8 KJV  And God is able to make all grace abound toward you; that ye, always having all sufficiency in all things, may abound to every good work:

All.  Always.  Every.

Remember there are four sources of comfort we can draw on according to the Bible –

1. Comfort from the Scriptures – Believe what God inspired to be written there. Don’t trust your feelings and emotions.
2. Comfort Ourselves – Praise God and remember all the times He has been faithful. Be thankful that He watches over us. He is the source of our joy and all good things.
3. Comfort Each Other – We’re in this together. We don’t have to go it alone. Look out for one another. 
4. Comfort from God – The God of ALL comfort. Believe what he says. Trust him for He is trustworthy. Despite whatever is going on around us, even when you can’t see him, remember always, God is there.

Finally, brethren, farewell. Be perfect, be of good comfort, be of one mind, live in peace; and the God of all comfort, the God of love and peace shall be with you. (2Co 13:11)

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Much of what I spoke about today was drawn from this book –

The God of All Comfort by Hannah Whitall Smith

It’s one of my very favorites. I highly recommend you get a copy. The book is out of print but used copies are readily available from Amazon for about $6.00 or $7.00 including shipping. The Kindle version is 99 cents.

It is also available online in soft copy for FREE DOWNLOAD. 



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